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Adjusting to Life with a Newborn: 5 Doula Tips for New Moms


Bringing home a new baby is a beautiful, transformative experience, but it can also be overwhelming. As you navigate this new chapter, remember that it’s okay to ask for help and take time for yourself. Here are five expert doula tips to help you adjust to life with your newborn while maintaining your well-being and sense of self.

1. Don’t Lose Yourself: Prioritize Self-Care

Your identity doesn’t disappear the moment you become a mother. As your priorities shift, it’s crucial to carve out moments for yourself. Practicing self-care early on can make a big difference. This can mean stepping outside for a few minutes and feeling the sunlight on your skin or soaking in a hot bath to relax and recharge. Catching up with a girlfriend over the phone can also do wonders for your mental health. Remember, you are still you, mama – and nurturing yourself allows you to better care for your little one.

2. Accept Help When It’s Offered

I can still remember vividly the times I turned down help when it was offered. If I could go back, I definitely would have accepted it. Instead of feeling ashamed about the state of my kitchen, I would have felt grateful for the person willing to lend a hand. It’s hard in the moment, but accepting help doesn’t make you weak – it shows strength in allowing others to support you. Trust me, you’ll feel so much better in the long run if accept the help when it's offered.

3. Start a Gratitude Journal

Beginning each day with a grateful heart helps shift your mindset, especially during challenging moments. Jotting down a few things you’re thankful for – whether it’s a hot cup of coffee, a sweet smile from your baby, or a supportive text from a friend – can help you find joy in the little things. A gratitude journal encourages a positive outlook, grounding you amidst the unpredictability of new motherhood.

4. Reach Out for Resources

You don’t have to figure everything out on your own. Connecting with other moms can provide valuable support and encouragement. Consider joining a local mommy group or attending a breastfeeding support group hosted by organizations like La Leche League. Some local churches also host supportive gatherings for new moms. Being around others who understand your journey can make a world of difference in feeling supported and less isolated.

5. Give Yourself Grace

This is all new territory, mama. There’s no manual for navigating motherhood, and it’s okay not to have all the answers. Be gentle with yourself and allow room for mistakes and learning curves. Lean on those around you when needed, and seek out support, whether it’s from family, friends, or professional resources.

You’re Not Alone

Adjusting to life with your new baby takes time, patience, and compassion. By practicing self-care, accepting help, focusing on gratitude, seeking community, and extending grace to yourself, you’re setting the foundation for a joyful and fulfilling motherhood journey.

Remember, you are not alone, and you are doing a great job. If you need additional support or guidance, reach out – we’re here to help.

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